Food for thought

Thinking about..

getting a new haircut.. I got an appointment at the hairdresser on the 25th untill then I gotta figure out what I want done with this damn hair of mine..

Thinking about getting something that looks a little like this.

The sun can't shine everyday

It's been a rainy day today - so I've spend the most of my day inside playing around with my blog and watching How I meet your mother.

Rainy wheater isn't bad wheather to me - it is nice sitting inside looking out and I love the smell when the fresh rain hits the pavements...

So here is a beautiful picture:

and a great song:



for you on this rainy day :)

Cheers and enjoy your evening :) 

To strive, to seek, to find and not to yeild

"When you get those rare moments of clarity, those flashes when the universe makes sense, you try desperately to hold onto them. They are the lifeboats for the darker times. When the vastness of it all, the incomprehensible nature of life is completely lucid. So the question becomes or should have been all along, what would you do if you knew you only had one day, or one week, or one month to live? What lifeboat would you grab on to? What secret would you tell? What band would you see? What person would you declare your love to? What wish would you fulfill? What exotic locale would you fly to for coffee? What book would you write?"

This is a quote from a movie I just finished watching. It is called One Week. It is a love letter not only to Canada but to life - and it is about remember who you are and holding on to that. I really recommend that you watch this movie. Be prepared to be wowed by the grand nature of Canada, to be moved, to laugh and to cry with the main character Ben Taylor (played by Joshua Jackson).

Living and Learning

I am a firm believer in the saying: "that which doesn't kill you can only make you stronger," and I my case it hasen't killed me yet.

A lot of stuff has added to me being the person that I am today and even though I've been through things that wasen't fun at the time - there actually isn't one single experience that I'd rather been without. If I haden't moved away from home at an early age I maybe wouldn't have had as strong a relationship with my sister as I have today, if I hadn't lived at Roenbjerghus first I maybe wouldn't have realized how truely lucky I was to live at a place like Fjordbo later and I am sure I wouldn't have been the person that I am today hadn't it been for either of those places. Roenbjerghus destroyed me and Fjordbo picked me back up - but I wouldn't have been as strong and confident as I am today hadn't I gone through what I did.

I am not sitting here feeling sorry for myself and I am not saying that my life has been any harder or easier than others. We all have or challenges and I have had mine.
This past year has made me appriciate my past a bit more - and the character it build in me. A few of the downs has been a fight between a life long friend and me - I doubt our friendship will ever be the same but today we talked for the first time in months and I feel we might be able to have another kinda friendship in the past.

There's been cancer in my family this year and their still is. I've feelt the sadness of not being able to see my brother as much as I used too because he moved away and a friend of mine has been bullied in a very public way (which I recentely noticed is still going on), but there has been alot of good stuff this year too.

Lots of great moments with my best friend and he amazing kids, other great moments with other good friends and me and my sister I feel is closer than ever and it ment the world to me to be able to acompany her to her first U2 concert (her fave band) and see have happy that made her.

Well I actually had a point when I started this post believe me or not ;) What I am trying to say is; it is so easy to only focus on the negative stuff in life and for some reason it is easier for us to stay mad at someone instead of listening and forgiving. I know - I've been there. I am not trying to make myself out to be a saint and this piece of advise is meant for me as much as anyone who feels like they need it:

Let go of the bad stuff in you life. Try and forgive people around you or hey maybe even yourselves. If you look at the brigth sides of life the sun will shine right through and what hurts and seems unfair today might turn out to be what will help you become the person you will become in a few years.

So thanks to everyone who ever hurt me or helped me in the past - you have brigthened my days or you who made the world seem like the worst place to be - all who have ever touched me in a neagative way or a positive, in a huge way or a little easily forgotten way - I am proud of who I am today and you helped me become that person.

I will leave you all with a piece of advice from Alan Doyle - an advice I am trying to remember everyday myself and today I feel like I did - in more ways than one.

So come on people count your blessings not your curses, find the angel in your life and let go of the devils, smile at the simple stuff and the sun will find you for sure :)



blog u later :) Have a great week, look at the bright sides of life and love a little <3

Heart of stone??

Okay this is not what i intended to do with this blog when I first started it and it will be the first and last post of the sort, but I just could not let this slip by without commenting on it and since the girl who wrote this blog post: http://farkthis.livejournal.com/8873.html hat inabled comments I decided to do it on my own blog.

First of all I have no idea who either the girl writing the blog is or PK is , but the girl who is under attack is a close friend of mine, but I really also do feel that is besides the point. I know that girl in question is a strong person with a lot of friends but that too is besides the point. I am a big girl just like her but that is not why I took offense to this either. The real reason is online bullying and all the recent cases of suicide that has happened because of it. If this blogger really don't know who my friend is she wouldn't have any idea of how a blog like this was going to affect her. I am all for speaking your opinion on blogs and letting the world know how you feel about everything between heaven and hell, but why would anyone do a blog post like this?

I wanna leave everyone with one last thought: always remember there is a real person behind every photo you use. A person with feeling, family and friends. A person just like you. So before you lash out how would you feel if someone did the same thing to you? I don't think anything bad of the subject of the blog post. It is okay to talk about how people dress, but I really don't see any reason to personalize it like that.

This blog post is dedicated to this woman, who is not only beautiful but also an amazing friend: